How to Wear a Silk Scarf in Your Hair: Headband, Ponytail, Bun, Braid and Wrap

The short answer

Fold a square silk scarf into a long band, from corner to corner, about 2 inches wide. Then tie it as a headband knotted at the nape, wrap it around a ponytail or bun, or braid it through the hair. Lightly textured, second-day hair grips silk best; pin it with two bobby pins.

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“A silk scarf in your hair is the fastest way to make a plain sweater and jeans look styled. The trick is the fold. Fold it on the bias, corner to corner, and it curves around your head instead of fighting it.”Her take

Which scarf size do you need?

Square silk scarves come in a few common sizes. Measurements vary by maker, so use these as a rough guide.

Small square, about 20 to 22 inches: ponytails, bun wraps, bows and wrist ties.
Medium square, about 26 to 28 inches: headbands and knotted styles with ends hanging.
Large square, about 34 to 36 inches: full head wraps and classic headscarves.
Long skinny scarf: tying around a ponytail with long ribbon-like ends, or braiding.

How to fold a scarf for your hair

Lay the scarf flat and fold it in half corner to corner to make a triangle. Fold the long edge up toward the point in sections about 2 inches deep, until you have a long band. This bias fold gives the silk a little stretch, so it hugs the curve of your head.

For a thinner band for ponytails, keep folding until it's about 1 inch wide. Press the fold with your fingers so it stays flat; a quick press with a cool iron on the silk setting helps if the scarf is new and slippery.

The silk scarf headband

Place the middle of the folded band at your hairline or about an inch behind it. Bring the ends down behind your ears and tie them at the nape of your neck, under your hair, with a double knot. Leave the ends hanging, or tuck them under.

To stop it sliding, spray a little dry shampoo or texture spray at the roots first, and slide a bobby pin in an X shape just behind each ear. For a modern variation, tie the knot on top of your head, slightly off to one side, with the ends pointing up.

Tied around a ponytail or bun

Make the ponytail or bun first and secure it with an elastic. Wrap the folded scarf around the elastic twice to hide it, then tie a simple knot or a bow. Let the ends fall 4 to 6 inches for a ponytail, shorter for a bun.

A low ponytail at the nape looks polished for work and dinners. A high ponytail with a bow is playful, and suits casual weekends. With a bun, tie the scarf at the base and tuck the ends around the bun for a neat finish.

Braided through your hair

Tie a thin folded scarf around the base of a ponytail. Split the ponytail into two sections and use the scarf as the third strand, braiding as usual. At the end, wrap the scarf around the tail and knot it.

This works best with a long, skinny scarf or a small square folded thin. Keep the braid slightly loose so the silk shows.

A full head wrap for travel and windy days

For a classic headscarf, fold a large square into a triangle, place the long edge across your forehead or hairline, and tie the two ends under your hair at the nape, over the point. It keeps hair tidy on windy days, in a convertible or on a ferry, and looks great with sunglasses.

In winter, a silk scarf under a wool hat or hood helps reduce friction on your hair, and you can wear it on its own once you're inside. Wrap it gently: a tight wrap can pull at the hairline.

How to match the scarf to your outfit

Pull one color from the scarf for your top, coat or bag, and keep the rest of the outfit solid. If your clothes have a print, choose a scarf with a small, quiet pattern or a solid color.

Let the scarf be the only hair accessory. Skip extra clips and headbands, and keep earrings simple: studs or small hoops.

Questions people ask

How do I keep a silk scarf from slipping out of my hair?

Use it on second-day or lightly textured hair, add dry shampoo or texture spray at the roots, and secure it with two crossed bobby pins on each side.

Can I wear a silk scarf in short hair?

Yes. A headband or a small knotted band works on any length. Ponytail wraps need hair long enough to gather.

Is silk better than polyester for hair scarves?

Silk is smoother and less likely to rub or crease hair, and it ties neatly. Polyester satin is less costly but slips more.

What size scarf is best for a headband?

A medium square around 26 to 28 inches, folded on the bias, gives enough length to tie at the nape with ends left over.

The takeaway

Fold on the bias, use textured hair, pin it behind the ears, and let the scarf be the only accessory in your hair.

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